FBSM Client Etiquette

 

Clients are pleasantly surprised to find that I’m a warm, positive person and very easy to talk to. I take a genuine interest in their lives. The feedback I often get is that I’m a real sweetheart. I try to convey that our’s is a business transaction whenever necessary but, because of my personality, I think the transactional nature of my service gets lost on clients. I say all of this to give a background on why I get asked on dates outside of sessions.

It is very flattering to know that a client wants to explore a relationship with me. What a compliment! But they are inevitably disappointed and actually surprised when I mention that the only companionship I offer is paid companionship.

I think it comes as a shock to clients that all my time is paid for because, again, I’m a very sweet and down to earth person! I do hate disappointing people. But my entire business is about paid companionship. It seems contrary to my personality, I’ll agree. But it’s how I’ve operated for years.

While I try to delicately remind clients that I am paid provider, I also need clients to do their part as well. It is natural to want to extend a relationship with your provider beyond the bedroom. However, it’s very helpful for clients to observe etiquette, remain professional, and understand and accept that many girls provide companionship for a living. And while there is nothing terribly wrong with asking your provider out on a date, be prepared to find out that she may actually offer dates but only at a rate.

But what's the point if I still have to pay for her time?

This is a fair question. However, detach yourself from the notion that a relationship cannot be enjoyable if you’re paying the companion for her time. In fact, lots of male-female relationship work on this basis. It’s a lot to process and it’s understandable if that’s not the kind of relationship you prefer to have.

However, be gentle with your provider and careful when posing these types of arrangements. I personally prefer for all of my time to be paid for. Some providers are willing to step outside of those bounds. My friendly advice is to be careful to not rock the boat, particularly if you’ve found a provider whose services you really enjoy.